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Bangla Night – A Social Event for Everyone

The Wokingham Catenians organises regular events for our members, including the popular Bangla Night, which is held 4-5 times per year. Bangla Night is a unique social event that welcomes both members and non-members. In fact, we make a special effort to invite non-members and are always happy to add those to our contact list who express an interest. As a result, we have a good number of non-Catenians on our list who join us. It is an excellent opportunity to meet new friends and expand our circle of acquaintances. What does a Bangla Night look like? It’s not difficult, it’s not special to Wokingham, but it works! The evening begins with a meet-up in a local pub where everyone can chat and get to know each other over drinks. This is a great time to reconnect with old friends and make new ones. After some time at the pub, the group moves to a local Indian restaurant for a delicious curry – that’s where the ‘Bangla’ part of the name comes from! It happens on a Friday night (see the connection to the second part of the name?), so the pub and Curry House are always busy and that adds to the atmosphere of the evening. The pub setting where we mingle freely without the constraints of sitting at a table is a great start to talk to many people. Conversation ranges from friendly banter, updates on family and community matters to personal concerns – whatever people want to talk about. Oh, and sport in general with football and rugby receiving particular attention! In the Curry House things settle down a little but conversation is still lively and great fun! However, this might also be a better opportunity to talk one-to-one with your immediate neighbour at the table. A Curry is a Curry you might think, but we do seem to have a good choice of restaurants in Wokingham and typically everybody is really excited by the food itself, so that adds to the enjoyment of the night. And then there’s the Bangla… or whatever else is your tipple of choice…

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Grandparents’ Day

Every 4th of July in the UK Catholics celebrate Grandparents Day.  It’s a day when we give thanks for the immense love, kindness, warmth and wisdom of the grandparent – and we also remember what our grandparents meant to us.  For so many of us our grandparents helped to shape us, to encourage us, to love and support us.  They were people who simply just loved us; delighted and took pride in our achievements and  in watching our development as human beings.  They were, and are, “there for us”. But what does it mean to be a grandparent?  I suppose for me in the first instance it means time …. Time you never had with your own children for you were much too busy carving out a career or trying to juggle life’s pressures.  And then there is the complete love you feel for the grandchildren, for their successes and achievements and for times when they have to learn life’s harsh lessons.  The time when they say “Did you really do that Grandpa ..?” and you have to admit that you did. But the most important thing is that your grandchildren teach you and give you so much more than you could ever give them!  There’s no training, no preparation, no one ever tells you how to be a good grandparent.  You’re on your own.  You are a grandparent in your own mould, informed by the example that you were given and guided by the giddy, stupefying, love that you feel for your blood descendants. So, certainly celebrate Grandparents day!  But I really wish that it was grand children day.  They really make my heart zing, and they give me so much more than I can ever give them!   It’s pure love. Bob from Cirencester Grandchildren are God’s way of compensating us for growing old

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A Generous Gift

Raising money for charity while recruiting members. If you are a regular reader of Catena, you may remember an article published last summer about an anonymous Brother who promised to donate £100 to charity for every enrolment in Province 19 during 2021/22, and £10 for every other visiting gentleman. Now the scores are in, and they are extremely encouraging. Province 19 has enrolled 20 new members and entertained a futher 22 visiting gentlemen. Woking circle topped the table with seven enrolments.

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