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Harrogate Circle host mass for deceased brothers and clergy evening

Following major moves in our Deanery’s Clergy, which meant we had a number of new Parish Priests, The Catenians Harrogate circle celebrated a very moving Mass for Deceased Brothers at St Joseph’s, which was concelebrated by five of our Clergy on Thursday 7th November 2024. This was followed by the group’s annual clergy evening at one of our favourite venues, Oakdale Golf Club, which had a fabulous turnout, enabling us to really get to know the new intake. A really good evening all round, and many thanks to Denis, Aileen, Bob and, of course, our clergy, who all helped make it such a good evening. Editor’s Note:Thanks to all for sharing your event details and pictures with us!If you are hosting an event we would love to hear from you and share how you continue to connect and build communities in and around your circle. Please contact us at any time!

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Why Male Friendship Matters: Reflections on being a Catenian

A thought-provoking take on male friendship, by Bob Hussey Did you catch A. N. Wilson’s insightful article on male friendships in The Times earlier this year? His reflections really got me thinking about friendship’s unique meaning within the Catenian Association. The inspiring friendship of Kevin Sinfield and Rob Burrow Under the title “No Bond is More Precious Than Male Friendship,” Wilson recounts the inspiring relationship between Rugby League legend Kevin Sinfield and his late friend Rob Burrow. After Burrow was diagnosed with motor neuron disease (MND), Sinfield dedicated himself to raising millions for MND research. In a remarkable show of solidarity, Sinfield famously pushed Burrow in a wheelchair during the Leeds marathon, only to lift him from the chair and carry him across the finish line together. Their story underscores the power of friendship in the most challenging circumstances. The need to teach young men about friendship Sinfield’s book, With You Every Step, aims to remind young men of the value of close male friendships, addressing the difficulty many men face in forming such bonds. A 2019 YouGov poll revealed that one in five UK men has no close friends, highlighting a troubling trend of male loneliness. Male loneliness and mental health concerns Wilson also draws attention to a larger issue: a significant percentage of men in the UK report feelings of loneliness, often with adverse mental health effects. Research shows that men who frequently experience loneliness are over twice as likely to suffer from depression compared to those with strong friendships. Why society needs spaces for male friendships Wilson argues that all-male spaces are essential, yet today, clubs and associations where men can connect are often viewed with suspicion. In earlier generations, men gathered in gentlemen’s clubs, sporting events, and other all-male settings to form bonds and engage in conversation freely. Today, these spaces are often criticised as exclusive or outdated, but they historically played a critical role in fostering male friendships outside of romantic partnerships. Male friendships offer a unique form of connection Wilson makes clear that male friendships are not “better” than friendships with women but are different and necessary. Men, too, need spaces to cultivate honest, supportive relationships, away from societal pressures or expectations. Think of famous pairs like Dr. Johnson and Dr. Boswell, or Holmes and Watson; their friendships highlight a special connection that can be hard to find elsewhere. My personal journey with male friendship I recently had to give the eulogy at the funeral of a very long-term friend of mine.  In it I considered the notion of male friendship.  To this day I am not sure how or why he and I became such good friends, but my late friend instinctively knew that he could always count on me – that I would always be there for him.  And I knew that he would always be there for me.  It wasn’t said – but it was understood. And I reflected that that is what being a Catenian is really all about – simple, uncomplicated, friendship.  Recently, whilst I was driving the long journey home from a monthly meeting of my “circle of friends”, I reflected just why I bothered to make the (considerable) effort and why the evening had been such fun?  Why this disparate group of people were such good, enduring and amusing company?  Why we got on together so well?  We came from all walks of life, from all social strata, and from all shades of opinion or the political spectrum.  I reflected just why I bothered to make the (considerable) effort and why the evening had been such fun?  Why this disparate group of people were such good, enduring and amusing company?  Why we got on together so well?  On paper we had little in common.  If I hadn’t been a Catenian I would certainly never have met them.  And yet – I’ve known some of them now for almost 40 years, and we’re still friends – we still laugh at each other’s (silly) jokes, (despite the fact that we’ve heard them many times before), and frequently – satisfyingly – still “put the world to rights”! If only life were so simple …. The Catenian Circle: A community of enduring friendships During that long drive home, I realised just how much my friendships within the circle mean to me. Although our group consists of men from all walks of life, In today’s individualistic world, friendships like those I’ve found with my fellow Catenians are rare and invaluable. Trusted friends who understand us and offer support are critical to navigating life’s challenges. The Catenian Association has blessed me with friends who provide wisdom, loyalty, and honest advice – a testament to the Catenian spirit. Join the Catenian community and discover lasting friendship If you’re seeking deep, meaningful friendships, consider joining the Catenian Association. The joy of true friendship is something we all deserve, and it’s a bond that has made my life profoundly richer. With Faith and Friendship,Bob Bob Hussey is a valued member of the Cirencester, South Cotswolds Catenian Circle, celebrated for his friendly nature, sense of humour, and steadfast commitment to the Catenian principles of friendship and support. Bob contributes both experience and enthusiasm to the Circle. He is well-known for his dedication to fostering connections within the community and supporting fellow members.

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Members of Cirencester, South Cotswolds Circle gathered at the home base of the Great Western Air Ambulance for a tour

The Catenians’ Visit to the Great Western Air Ambulance Charity

Members of Cirencester, South Cotswolds Circle gathered at the home base of the Great Western Air Ambulance for a tour On a morning with rain looming, members of the Cirencester, South Cotswolds Circle gathered at the base of the Great Western Air Ambulance Charity (GWAAC) for an enlightening tour. This charity plays a vital role, providing Helicopter Emergency Medical Services (HEMS) for Gloucestershire, parts of Wiltshire, and Northern Somerset. Their operational headquarters, strategically located near the intersection of the M4 and M5 in Almondsbury, Bristol, serves as the lifeline for rapid response critical care in the region. A Personal Connection: Why the GWAAC was chosen as the President’s charity Cirencester Circle President, Tony Mellor, has a personal connection to the Great Western Air Ambulance. Last year, Tony’s daughter was involved in a serious road accident, and her steady recovery was, in part, due to the swift intervention by the HEMS team. Moved by the impact of their care, Tony adopted GWAAC as his President’s Charity for the year. To support the cause, Tony embarked on a sponsored 102-mile walk along the Cotswold Way, raising significant funds for the charity. His dedication inspired fellow Circle members, leading to the organisation of this visit, allowing everyone to gain firsthand insight into the charity’s lifesaving work. The role of the Great Western Air Ambulance charity in emergency care The Great Western Air Ambulance Charity is one of the 21 air ambulance charities across the UK. These organisations bridge the gap between the scene of an emergency and the hospital, effectively bringing an emergency room directly to the patient. With a team that includes a consultant-level critical care doctor and a highly skilled paramedic, GWAAC provides rapid response services either by helicopter or high-speed critical care cars, all equipped with lifesaving medical equipment. Cutting-edge equipment and expertise The medical advancements utilized by GWAAC include techniques and equipment that originated in military settings, developed for battlefield medicine in places like Iraq and Afghanistan. In 2022, the charity responded to 1,979 medical emergencies, with cardiac arrests and road traffic accidents being the most common call-outs. A meticulous approach: the tour of GWAAC facilities Circle members were treated to an in-depth tour, gaining insight into the meticulous organization and dedication behind GWAAC’s operations. Critical care cars: ready for action The base holds three identical critical care cars, each equipped with color-coded, strategically placed bags of medical supplies. The cars remain connected to mains power while in the garage, ensuring all electrical equipment, such as heart monitors, are fully charged and ready for immediate use. Additionally, all paramedics undergo police-led high-speed driving training, allowing them to reach urban areas where the helicopter may face landing restrictions. Helimed 65: A versatile air ambulance helicopter The pride of the fleet, Helimed 65, is a Eurocopter 135. Known for its agility and reliability, this helicopter can access smaller landing sites and is fully stocked with the same medical equipment as the critical care cars. Although space is limited, Helimed 65 can still transport patients, and if needed, accommodate a patient’s family member or guardian during transit. The cost of life-saving work: funding the GWAAC One surprising fact about GWAAC, and other HEMS charities, is that they receive no public funding. Relying entirely on public donations, the GWAAC, like the Royal National Lifeboat Institution (RNLI), is an essential service whose operations depend on community support. For such a critical service to function without state, local, or NHS funding speaks volumes about the dedication and passion of its team and supporters. Impressions and next Steps: supporting the GWAAC mission Members of the Cirencester, South Cotswolds Circle left the GWAAC base with a profound appreciation for the dedication, expertise, and compassion shown by the team. The Circle is now more committed than ever to fundraising efforts, inspired by the visit to continue supporting this essential service. How you can help Supporting local air ambulances like the Great Western Air Ambulance Charity is a powerful way to contribute to life-saving services. By donating, fundraising, or even volunteering, community members play a direct role in sustaining critical emergency care for those in need. Supporting the GWAAC is not just an act of charity; it’s an investment in community safety and emergency response.

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Catenian Stories – Ben, Grimsby Circle

The second of our short interviews with some of our younger members; this time meet Ben Reilly, one of our younger Catenians at the sprightly age of 24! Ben joined the Grimsby circle in 2018. Are you one of our young Catenians and would like to share what being a Catenian means to you? Please get in touch as we would love to hear your story! What made you want to be a Catenian? I experienced some of the Grimsby Circle’s family events as my fathers’ guest and thought the association seemed to be a great opportunity for likeminded Catholics to socialise and bond. The variety of events at in the Province such as the Barnsley Chop, the Rex Kirk quiz and of course Grimsby’s Fish ‘n’ Chip night appeared as a great opportunity to enhance my social calendar and meet new people. What did you know about the Catenians prior to joining? I knew it was a Catholic association based around friendship, faith and charity. I knew there were plenty of opportunities to visit local circles and that there was also lots of events within the Grimsby circle to look forward to. I joined because I wanted to explore these more. Since you’ve joined has your experience been better / different / worse than you thought it was going to be? Definitely different. As much as I was keen to join the Catenians, it did seem from the outside like an old-fashioned association which maybe wouldn’t suit the youth of today. I’m very happy to say that this isn’t the case. As young people, I feel that Luke, Adam and I have found the association to be very compatible with our personalities and lifestyle. I would encourage any young Catholics with doubts around the Catenians to give it a try as I believe the vast majority would be pleasantly surprised. Furthermore, I have found that the association is becoming more and more compatible with young people as it evolves. Our Circle President last year, Jonathan Read, put together a program with a variety of events such as a quiz night, desert island discs and after-dinner speeches. Each meeting had a different theme of cuisine too, meaning that no evening with the Grimsby Catenians is the same. This year’s Circle President Keith Littlewood has also committed an ambitious program which means the great nights will continue. I find the association to be great fun and personally look forward to each circle meeting as one of the highlights of my month. Have you been made to feel welcome? Absolutely. Every member is approachable and has been very welcoming. I have made many new friends from my own circle and other circles in the Province. Interested in joining the Catenians? Many of our younger members are seeing the benefits of Catenian membership – from friendship to community involvement and a true sense of welbeing, purpose and connection through faith. We’re thrilled that Adam could share his story with us. If you are interested in joining our community of like minded people, please see our membership page for more details on membership and to enquire further.

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Catenian Stories – Adam, Grimsby Circle

In a new series of short interviews with some of our younger members, please enjoy a little insight into our fellow Catenian, Adam, 23, who joined the Grimsby circle in 2019 and has been a fantastic member with a great deal to give in our community since. Are you one of our young Catenians and would like to share what being a Catenian means to you? Please get in touch as we would love to hear your story! What made you want to be a Catenian? Growing up with a dad as a Catenian, I was always surrounded by good company and friendly faces, as I got older I grew to learn and appreciate the charity work and close friendship offered by the Catenians and wanted to join myself to be apart of it all. What did you know about the Catenians before you joined? The Catenians have always been present in my life in the form of my dad and his friends and have always been a group of people I can rely on. However I did not know about much about their charity work growing up but as I got older I started to appreciate all they do for the local community and charities. Since you’ve joined, has you experience been better, different or worse than you thought it was going to be? Joining the Catenians, I wasn’t sure if the older group would appreciate a younger man joining but since joining I have met only kind people and have made great lifelong friends, especially with my fellow young members. Have you been made to feel welcome? The catenians have been very welcoming over the years and have introduced me to some very good friends and I have enjoyed many good events with them, I often look forward to a catenian night especially the large events such as president Sunday and the ladies night as they are always good social events. Would you like to take on any roles in the Catenians Grimsby circle? In future I would consider taking on a role in the circle as I would like to help my circle reach out to a younger audience. Do you ever think about being Circle President? I would possibly consider it in future but currently do not think I would have the time or facilities to be able to successfully be a circle president. Interested in joining the Catenians? Many of our younger members are seeing the benefits of Catenian membership – from friendship to community involvement and a true sense of welbeing, purpose and connection through faith. We’re thrilled that Adam could share his story with us. If you are interested in joining our community of like minded people, please see our membership page for more details on membership and to enquire further.

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The final day! St Cuthbert’s Way pilgrimage

The final morning of our pilgrimage walk along the St Cuthbert’s Way began in bright sunshine even though it was extremely chilly. After morning prayer we completed our walk across the sands following the iconic pilgrim’s route. Then we celebrated Holy Mass with Bishop John in the tiny chapel of St Aidan. A fitting end to a wonderful week. Many many thanks to all who made it possible!

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Day 6 – St Cuthbert’s Way pilgrimage

This morning we all woke up to hear the rain bouncing down and the wind rattling the windows. However by the time we met for morning prayer the rain had cleared and we’d only been left with strong gusty wind. The remainder of the day was spent in the strong sunshine with a gusty wind. Lunch and the rosary was celebrated at St Cuthbert’s Cave before the group walked downhill into Fenwick. We were blessed with our first sight of the sea and Lindisfarne our destination for tomorrow. So ended another splendid day!

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Day 5 – St Cuthbert’s Way pilgrimage

Today saw the greatest challenge as we completed the 13.5 walk from Kirk Yetholm to our base in Wooler. The weather was cool but dry as we left Kirk Yetholm after morning prayer. This was the start of the long climb over the Cheviot hills to the tiny hamlet of Hethpool. Here we stopped for lunch and the recital of the rosary. Graham Sivills at last managed to get some aerial shots from his drone before the group continued their trip across the hills to Wooler. We managed to arrive safely at 5.00pm despite facing up to the challenges of slippy muddy slopes, puddles, bracken and even the occasional snake!

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Day 4 – St Cuthbert’s Way pilgrimage

Another great days walking! After Sunday mass we began our trek from Morebattle to Kirk Yetholm where following a gentle stroll up the Bowmont Valley we began the extremely steep ascent of Wide Open Hill the highest point on the route and the halfway mark of our journey to Lindisfarne. The views in places were outstanding yet at times we drifted in and out of the low cloud and mist. Eventually as we descended into Kirk Yetholm amidst the now steady rain we all had an obligatory in the Borders Hotel. Tomorrow we face the longest walk of the week as we traverse the Cheviots to our base in Wooller. Borders Hotel is also end of the Pennine Way, hence the pile of boots 🙂

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Day 3 – St Cuthbert’s Way pilgrimage

This morning we once again began with morning prayers in St Ninian’s Churchyard remembering in particular all our deceased brothers and their families. Then we met up with Jamie and Helen from Manchester North & Middleton Circle who joined us for today’s walk from Jedfoot Bridge to Morebattle a ten mile walk across some idyllic rolling Scottish countryside. As the sun shone, the gentle breeze kept us cool and refreshed we strolled through fields of wheat, barley and woodland. A splendid walk with wonderful friends. Stay with us Lord on our journey St Cuthbert pray for us.

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